Dating too soon after breakup
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but I am not going to lie to you because I want you to truly If the nature of the time you spent with him during your relationship was miserable and unhappy, the chances of him wanting to get back together with you are lower.
On the flip side, if you had an amazing relationship, it’s more likely that he broke up with him your shot of getting him back is higher than if he broke up with you. Because people inherently want what they can’t have.
You certainly must make him miss you if you ever want to get him to try to win you back, but it takes more than that to get him back and . In order to get the result you want, you have to do the entire formula not just parts.
If you only tried to make him miss you but didn’t do anything else, you wouldn’t end up getting back together with him.
It’s an even stronger force when you’ve broken up with someone who wants to stay together with you…
because the lack of cake is a self-imposed restriction, whereas someone breaking up with you when you do not want them to is not self-imposed. he was unfaithful, betrayed you and this caused you to break up with him.
Do you only end up more upset and frustrated in the end? I would check her social media, trying to figure out how she was doing. What determines whether or not your ex-boyfriend misses you?
The nature of the time you spent with him is going to play a huge role in whether or not he wants to get back together with you.
Unfortunately, in reality just having him miss you isn’t enough.
Mentally, breakups are actually very similar to how it feels when you quit a drug, and go through withdrawal.
Drugs stimulate the pleasure center of the brain, increasing the amount of dopamine and making you feel a general sense of euphoria. You might feel lethargic, like you have no energy and no real spring in your step.
So if you’re in a relationship right now, you might still miss your ex. At the moment, your ex has you on his mind way too often.
Same goes for him (especially if it’s a rebound relationship). So let’s take this baseline and think about what would happen if you add an expert’s advice on top of this.